In today’s fast-paced and materialistic world, having a perfect and aesthetically pleasing home has become the norm. It’s not uncommon to scroll through social media and see countless images of perfectly styled and decorated homes. We are constantly bombarded with the latest home decor trends, making us feel like we need to have a picture-perfect home at all times. We live in a small 1,600sq ft 1950s brick home. We have lived here a long long time and it took me a while to find what was “ my style” and not the style that was “ expected” of me. If you know, you know…..

The pressure to have a flawless home can often lead to stress, dissatisfaction, and even financial strain. We become so focused on trying to solve the problem of having a perfect big home that we forget to question the root cause of our desire for it. What if the real problem lies within our mindset? What if we have been programmed to believe that a certain type of home decor is the only acceptable and fashionable way to decorate?

Take a deep breath and close your eyes.
Imagine your perfect home, the one that makes you feel happy and at peace. Now, open your eyes and take a look around your actual living space. Does it match your imagined perfect home? If not, then why not? Why do we spend so much time and effort trying to achieve a ‘perfect’ home when it may not even align with our own personal tastes and desires?

Money is often seen as the solution to all our problems, including the desire for a perfect home. We believe that if we have enough money, we can buy all the trendy home decor pieces and have a flawless home. But the truth is, money isn’t everything when it comes to creating a happy home. It’s time to shift our focus from constantly trying to fix our homes to understanding what truly makes us happy.

So, how can we break free from this mindset and create a genuinely happy home? Here are 5 easy steps to consider:

Step 1: Let go of everything that doesn’t bring you joy. I mean it, it’s so liberating.

Start by decluttering your home and getting rid of items that no longer serve a purpose or bring you happiness. This will not only make your space feel more open and inviting, but will also help you identify what truly matters to you.

Step 2: Seek inspiration.

Browse through Pinterest, my blog, and explore different styles of home decor . Look for ideas and inspiration that speak to you and reflect your personal taste and style. Don’t be afraid to think outside the box and mix and match different design elements.

Step 3: Take yourself on a scavenger hunt.

Instead of going out and buying everything new, take the time to visit flea markets, thrift stores, and antique shops. Not only will you find unique pieces that add character to your home, but the experience of finding them will also add a special meaning to the items.

Step 4: Stay true to yourself.

As you decorate your home, remember to stay true to who you are and what brings you joy. Don’t follow trends for the sake of it, and don’t be afraid to mix styles and incorporate personal touches that represent your unique personality.

Step 5: Have fun!

At the end of the day, home decor is not meant to be a serious and stressful task. It should be enjoyable and allow you to express yourself and create a space that brings you happiness. So, don’t get caught up in achieving a perfect home, and remember to have fun throughout the process.

In conclusion, instead of constantly trying to solve the problem of having a perfect home, we need to shift our focus to our mindset. Let go of the societal pressures and expectations, and embrace your personal style and tastes. Trust your intuition, have fun, and create a home that truly reflects who you are. After all, a happy home is not about having the trendiest decor but about having a space that makes you feel happy and at peace.

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